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Part-III: Why Society Forces Us to Be Somebody

August 23, 2025 · 13 min read

In the first two parts of this series, we acted as detectives. We saw that our personal fear of being a 'nobody' comes from a self that is nothing more than a story. We then zoomed out and saw how society builds a vast system to trap us in that story, selling us a 'blueprint for somebody' to keep us in a state of predictable order. This leaves us with the most important question of all: If our inner self is a story and the outer world is a system designed to trap us, is there a path to authentic living? Can we find freedom?

The answer is yes. The path is not found by building a better story or becoming a 'better somebody,' but by cultivating the art of being a 'nobody'—a state of being free from the prison of a fixed self. This is not a path of inaction, but of a new, more intelligent and joyful way of acting in the world.

Chapter 1: The Intelligence of the Body

Before we can free the mind, we must first inhabit the body. The prison of thought is not just an abstract concept; it is a physical reality. The anxiety of the 'Racer’s Mind' lives in your tense shoulders, your shallow breath, your tight jaw. The peace of the 'Gardener’s Mind' is felt as a physical release, an openness in the chest.

Your body is the ultimate anchor to the present moment. It does not lie. While your mind can spin stories about the past and future, your body is always, completely, here and now. It is an unbiased reporter of your inner state. The first art of being nobody is to listen to this intelligence. When you feel that familiar knot of anxiety, shift your attention from the story in your head to the sensation in your body. Where is it? What does it feel like? By simply observing this physical sensation without judgment, you are stepping out of the stream of thought and into the reality of the present. The body is the doorway out of the prison.

A person meditating, with a calm and centered posture

Chapter 2: The Dance of Dissolution (The Wisdom of Shiva)

The identity that causes this physical tension is a fixed thing, a solid structure. To find freedom, we must learn the art of letting it dissolve. In the West, we fear destruction, but in Eastern philosophy, it is a vital and creative act.

The Hindu deity Shiva, often called 'The Destroyer,' represents this cosmic principle of Dissolution. His cosmic dance, the Tandava, is the eternal rhythm of the universe—creation, preservation, and dissolution. Old forms must crumble to make way for new life. The desire to 'return to zero' is an intuitive call to join this sacred dance. It is the wisdom of allowing the old, tired self-story ('I am the rank-holder,' 'I am the failure') to dissolve. This is not an end, but a clearing of the slate, making space for a fresh, authentic action to be born from the clarity of the present moment.

The Hindu deity Shiva performing the cosmic dance of creation and dissolution

Chapter 3: Action from Nothingness (The Wisdom of Krishna)

What does it mean to act once this old identity has dissolved? The Bhagavad Gita provides a profound guide in the form of Karma Yoga—the yoga of action. The teaching is simple but radical: act with your full intelligence and power, but release your attachment to the fruits (outcomes) of your actions.

The 'fruit'—the success, the validation, the profit—is the psychological reward the ego craves. It is the source of all our anxiety. To act from 'nothingness' is to act without this need to feed the ego. Your focus shifts entirely from the future outcome to the quality of the action itself, right now. You write a line of code not for the billion-dollar exit, but for the simple, intrinsic joy of crafting an elegant solution. This is the path to unlocking your full potential, because all of your energy is available for the task, no longer wasted on the internal war of fear and desire.

Chapter 4: The Right Tool for the Job – Navigating Your Inner World

This philosophy becomes a daily practice when you learn to distinguish between the two rooms of your mind.

  • The Workshop 🔨: This is where you use the external toolkit of thought, logic, and judgment. It's perfect for objective, solvable problems like planning your project or debugging your code.

  • The Living Room ❤️: This is your internal space of awareness and feeling. Bringing the noisy tools of the workshop here—judging your emotions, analyzing your self-worth—creates conflict and suffering.

To know which room you are in, and which tool to use, you need a filter for the constant stream of reasons and meanings your mind produces. Before you believe a thought, ask: 'Does this thought lead to expansion or contraction?' Be wary of the 'Sugar High' of the Ego—a feeling of expansion that comes from a successful outcome. It is fleeting and creates attachment. Seek instead the 'Nourishment' of Presence—the quiet, steady joy that comes from the process of learning and creating itself, independent of the result.

Conclusion to Part 3

We have found a path to freedom that is grounded, profound, and practical. It begins with the wisdom of the body, is guided by the philosophy of letting go (Shiva) and right action (Krishna), and is practiced daily through the art of mindful awareness (the toolkit). We have learned how to be a 'nobody'—not by becoming worthless, but by becoming free from a fixed, fragile identity.

But what happens when this free individual, this 'peaceful gardener,' must face the ambitious 'racers' of the world? Can this inner peace survive in a world of conflict and competition?

...to be continued in the final part of our series: The Dharma of Action.

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